Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Liberal Cowardice

Liberal Cowardice

Perhaps you saw it on television.  A gaggle of students at Cornell University engaged in what they called a “cry-in.”  They sat on the steps of one of the school’s buildings and blubbered away about the horrible news that Donald Trump had won the presidential election.
Entertainers, such as Miley Cyrus, were equally distraught.  They too could not hold back the tears.  Cyrus was especially concerned by the psychic damage that might be done to Hillary Clinton.  After all, Hillary worked so hard and she deserved to win.  Her loss was thus a tragedy.
I have myself been privy to some of the anguish that liberals experienced.  Hence, when I suggested in one of my classes that Obama’s actions might have fanned the flames of the racial discord that motivated many Trump voters, several students stood up an walked out.
While I did not say this in class—and probably will not—I regard their behavior as example of liberal cowardice.  When people will not stay put to hear opinions with which they disagree, this shows a lack of courage.  When they publicly weep after sustaining a political loss, they are scarcely demonstrating bravery.
Consequent to publishing my latest book (Unlocking Your Inner Courage), I have sought to explain how people can become more courageous than they usually assume.  I have further sought to clarify why courage has become more necessary in a world where we must make independent choices about our occupations and personal relationships.
One way I attempted to do this was by organizing a courage workshop on the Kennesaw State University campus.  Unhappily only two students showed up.  When I inquired as to why the turn-out was so low, the answer I got was that many were afraid of what they might discover.
Now I am busy putting together public presentations about the need for courage in the modern world.  By the time this column is published, I will have done one of these at KSU.  It is anybody’s guess about whether it will be successful.
I do know this; when I offered a workshop on courage for the Georgia Sociological Association, the room was full and the feedback I received was uniformly positive.  There thus seems to be some recognition that we, as a society, could use more courage.
Many liberals, however, think not.  Not only are they unashamed of public displays of weakness, but they would disperse this attitude as widely as possible.  They believe it is evidence of their sensitivity.  It supposedly proves that they care about others.
What these folks do not seem to understand is that genuine concern cannot exist in the absence of courage.  If people are unable to stand up in the face of adversity, they cannot nullify it.  If all they can do is emote and complain, then what has gone wrong will continue to go wrong.
I saw this when I worked as a counselor at a psychiatric hospital.  Each year bright-eyed recruits came on board dedicated to providing relief for our mental patients.  But each year, just as regularly, most of them decided to drop out.  Because they could not endure being exposed to the pain of their client’s diseases, they left for less challenging endeavors.
The same applies to those distraught liberals who cannot contemplate a government in the hands of someone they regard as the devil.  If all they can do is wring their hands and insult those who defeated them, they are setting themselves up for additional losses.
If they want to win in the future—or exercise influence in the present—they have to suck it up and deal with reality.  The election, as Barack Obama once opined in his own case, is over.  It is time to deal with it or get out of the way.
Courage is not about a lack of fear.  It is about grace under pressure.  It entails being able to think clearly, and act decisively, despite one’s fears.  Snowflakes of the world, if you melt, you will only leave behind a puddle that will soon evaporate.  If your cause is just—in any respect—you should defend it as bravely as you can.
Melvyn L. Fein, Ph.D.
Professor of Sociology

Kennesaw State University

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