Monday, September 21, 2015

Good Daddy/Bad Daddy

         The liberal attitude toward authority is juvenile at best; schizophrenic at worst.  Liberals believe that authority is always supposed to be beneficial.  It must only do good; never employ force.  Of course, a truly virtuous father understands that these apparent opposites are synergistic.
For starters, liberals identify with the poor and weak.  Even when they are in charge, they perceive themselves as underdogs.  As a result, they become enraged whenever force is employed against minorities.
The result is liberal sympathy for the “Black Lives Matter” movement coupled with a negative attitude toward the police.  Despite the many thousands of blacks murdered by other blacks, the focus is entirely on the few that have been killed by the cops.  Even when a police officer is justified, the outrage festers.
It is as if there are two incompatible kinds of government power.  The first sort is like a good daddy who showers his vulnerable children with all sorts of goodies and protects them from external harm.  Meanwhile, the second—the bad daddy—imposes discipline.  He punishes errant behavior.
Lest it be forgotten, liberals also believe that everyone—especially the poor—deserves “unconditional positive regard.”  We are never supposed to make the underprivileged feel bad about themselves no matter what they do.  This would constitute “blaming the victim.”
This being the case, externally imposed discipline is forbidden.  As a result, a version of social permissiveness countenances the weak doing whatever they want within their own neighborhoods.   If they rob each other, shoot each other, or have children out of wedlock, this is their business.
The cops, if they get involved, must always be nice.  They must never get angry, even if provoked.  Similarly, they must never employ violence, irrespective of who initiates it.  As the agents of a “good daddy” government, they need to be entirely loving.
This, of course, assumes that the weak are invariably capable of self-discipline.  They ought never be punished because they are adults who deserve control over their lives.  To permit bullyboy strangers—who don’t always like them—to intervene is therefore intolerable.
No doubt, most liberal parents employ discipline as lightly as possible.  They prefer to use the time out, rather than the whip, to correct their errant children.  Why can’t the police do the same?
But, pray tell, how would this be achieved?  What would constitute a time out for ghetto ruffians?   Would they be cordoned off from the rest of society?  Could control be realized merely by reaching out a hand of friendship?
Those who believe that unrelenting niceness can do the job have evidently never lived in poor neighborhoods.  Either that or they are themselves among the troublemakers.  Folks like me, who have toiled in the inner city, know better.
The fact is that no successful government can completely rule out the use of force.  If it is always the good daddy, it will wake up one day to discover that it has been overthrown by some of its most obstreperous children.  In shunning the power to prevent bad, it will most assuredly squander the power to do good.
An undisciplined society is one where the economy cannot work.  Brigands and conmen would run rampant.  Honest business people would thus lock their doors, while decent citizens would tremble in their barricaded bedrooms.
An undisciplined society is also one that is vulnerable to external aggression.  If its people are so unruly that they cannot be organized into a coherent army, they are sure to go down to defeat.
As a consequence, societies that refuse to disciple those among them who cannot disciple themselves are doomed.  If they never impose force on those who will not control themselves, they will die of an overdose of niceness.
Is this where we are bound?  Have we grown so soft that we have also become softheaded?  If so, that is, if we continue to punish the police for other’s misdeeds, we will have earned the chaos we reap.
Melvyn L. Fein, Ph.D.
Professor of Sociology

Kennesaw State University

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