You’ve seen it. Perhaps in a supermarket or on a plane a
small child throws a tantrum. Then his
mother seeks to appease him by giving in to little Johnny’s every whim. No matter what he asks, she placates him.
Maybe this mom had a
difficult childhood. Perhaps raised in
poverty by an abusive parent, she is now determined to make sure that her child
has every advantage. Mindful of her
present good fortune, she is resolved not to deny him what it is in her power
to provide.
The problem is that
permissiveness backfires. All too often,
its recipients are not grateful. Indeed,
many become selfish adults who are utterly insensitive to the needs of
others. Unfortunately, what amounts to racial
permissiveness today flourishes among liberals.
Ironically, in their quest to right previous wrongs, they inadvertently create
new ones.
Although racism persists, it
is a spent force. Only a few troglodytes
insist that blacks be oppressed—and they usually do not have the power to enforce
their will. The rest of us stipulate
that African-Americans must receive the same opportunities as everyone else.
Nonetheless, blacks are not
entitled to special privileges. The same
rules that apply to others must also apply to them. If anything, allowing them unique dispensations
is like spoiling the very young. It robs
them of the controls needed to become successful.
If proof is necessary, the
Ferguson debacle supplies it in abundance.
To blame the police for the death of a young thug—merely because he was
black—provides an excuse for lawlessness.
It informs out-of-control young men that only others must exercise
restraint.
When the president of the
United States tells the nation that he “understands” why blacks are distraught,
he, in effect, justifies the rioting. Whatever
else he says is canceled out by putting the focus on police behavior—where, in
this case, it does not belong. Officer
Wilson did nothing wrong!
Al Sharpton, Eric Holder,
and Brown’s attorneys likewise illustrate the consequences of racial
permissiveness. By essentially claiming
that bad conduct is acceptable, they undermine our nation’s foundations. Ostensibly to compensate for a non-existent crime,
they would cheerfully put the rest of us in jeopardy.
Consider the attacks on the
grand jury. It was held in secret, as
are all grand juries, but now its secrecy is to be stripped away. Why? Because the race hustlers hope to apply
pressure for an outcome they desire. It
matters not that they would thereby destroy an institution designed to protect our
rights.
Or what about the attacks on
the district attorney? His character was
impugned, again, to coerce a desired result.
Incredibly, he has been castigated for presenting all of the evidence to
the grand jury. In other words, unless he
collaborated in rigging the decision, his detractors would not be satisfied.
Or what about demands that
police recruiting be nationalized. What
makes the critics believe that federal control would enhance this effort? Is Washington that efficient? No, the goal is once more to use the central
government to impose an unlegislated result.
Or what about the
rioting? Why wasn’t sufficient force
brought to bear? In the old day they
shot looters; hence there was little looting.
While it is not necessary to go that far, mass arrests and public
condemnation would have done wonders.
None of this flying in from Washington to comfort the parents!
The violence that is ripping
apart black neighborhoods will never subside until blacks take responsibility
for controlling it. Blaming others merely
diverts attention from the unfulfilled obligations of black leaders and
national politicians.
African-Americans are not
children. Nor are they mentally or
morally defective. It is time to stop
treating them as if they were. We demand
civilized behavior of others; we must demand it of them! Writing off violent tantrums as protests is
absurd. This trivializes the freedoms
for which so many sacrificed their last full measure of devotion.
Melvyn L. Fein, Ph.D.
Professor of Sociology
Kennesaw State University
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