Christmas is the holiday of
love. It is the time of the year when
bygones are to be bygones and we are to join hands in shared amity. But not this year! Certainly not in the political arena—where
the acrimony is greater than in decades.
Republicans are getting much
of the blame for their expressed intension to roll back Obama’s immigration and
health care initiatives. Their
unwillingness to be bipartisan is routinely blamed for the impasse in
Washington.
My mother, however, always
told me that it takes two to make a fight.
There is, in fact, a Democratic dimension to our current turmoil. Indeed, if there is a prime aggressor, he
lives in the White House. Both before
and after the election, our president has kicked his opponents where it hurts. Now they are reproached for howling in pain.
If people are to work
together, they must first listen to each other and second make adjustments. How unwilling liberals are to do this was
brought home to me during a recent trip to Florida. Thus, many I encountered were liberals with unmistakable
attitudes.
Let me make clear, I did not
initiate our discussions. More than
once, while enjoying a friendly meal, I was initially thanked for not going
political. Then these others brought up
issues about which they knew we disagreed.
It was they who sought to go on the record.
Nonetheless I am not shy
about defending my positions. Soon
enough we reached a deadlock. At this
point, on several different occasions, I asked if there was any evidence I
could adduce that would change my adversary’s viewpoint. In each case, the answer was a clear and
unambiguous: No!
What kind of discussion is
it where facts have no relevance? The
answer is plain. These typically concern
moral controversies. When people believe
they are fighting for justice, they refuse to be deterred by pesky truths. To the contrary, they insist on clinging to
what are regarded as higher truths.
This then is where we are at
as a nation. We are morally polarized. Liberals and conservatives are each convinced
that they hold the high ground. Neither
is even willing to concede that the other is operating from “good will.”
Part of the reason for this antagonism
is that accusations of moral turpitude have been escalating for years. Protagonists on both sides consequently respond
ever more vehemently to what they perceive as undeserved brickbats.
Do you remember when Barack
Obama promised to bring us together? Do
you recall when he contended that there were no white or black, no red or blue states? There was only the United States.
Those days are gone. From the moment he took office, Obama has
been telling Republicans their opinions do not matter. As a result, they were not included in
writing the stimulus or affordable health care acts. Indeed, not a single conservative vote was
cast for the latter.
Now Republicans are
castigated for not helping make ObamaCare work.
They are similarly chastised for not concurring in a Democratic
sponsored immigration law. Apparently
the only way they are allowed to compromise with liberals is by capitulating to
them.
Obama’s has been the most
divisive administration since the Great Depression. He will not discuss; he will not adjust; he
will not accommodate. His much-vaunted
willingness to listen to other ideas includes only those with which he already
agrees.
If we are to have
collegiality on the banks of the Potomac, this blame game must stop. Too often we hear calls for bipartisanship in
the abstract followed by partisanship on the particulars. Brotherhood (and sisterhood) has to do
better.
Actually I have no
expectations of political comity. The
next two years promise to be exceptionally rancorous. And so, despite my desire for an extended holiday
season, I am girding my loins for spiteful conflict. Moreover, if we cannot have civility, then I too
will fight for what I believe.
Melvyn L. Fein, Ph.D.
Professor of Sociology
Kennesaw state University