By almost universal
consent—except on the extreme liberal left and among Democratic Party
operatives—the War on Women is acknowledged to be as phony as a four-dollar
bill. So why do young women continue to
buy it?
An answer can be found in a
long-standing piece of social research.
Contrary to what the radical feminists say, there are differences
between men and women. While we are, of
course, the same species, there are consistent disparities in how the genders
address problems.
In general, men tend to be
more instrumental than women, whereas women tend to be more expressive than
men. While these orientations overlap,
there are observable discrepancies in how they are distributed.
What then is the
difference? An instrumental approach is primarily
concerned with getting a job done. The
goal of an activity is kept firmly in mind and pursued with single-minded
determination.
Conversely, an expressive
approach is more concerned with keeping the peace. The objective is to prevent relationships
from becoming too contentious. In order
to achieve this, women are sensitive to the emotional ambience in a group and
notice when it becomes antagonistic.
Thus, while men are apt to
plow ahead and seek to defeat a foe, women are likely to placate potential adversaries. As a result, women may be hostile to those
perceived as disturbing the tranquility of a group.
Research also shows that men
are more likely to think in a linear manner, arriving at a conclusion step by
step. Meanwhile women are more caring in
their attitude. They don’t want people
to get hurt and so they embrace solutions that seem to do the least harm.
As a result, young women are
attracted to liberal rather than conservative causes. Because they want to be nice, they take
seriously political claims about being compassionate. And since these are the bread and butter of
Democratic politicians, they are apt to vote for them.
Men, in contrast, are more
interested in results. They want to know
if a policy works. If it does not, they
are likely to reject it. Nor are they
deterred if this requires them to be harsh in opposing those who support a
losing strategy. They do not mind the confrontation
and therefore fight back.
So when men look at the ObamaCare
muddle, they protest the incompetence.
Young women, however, hear the good intensions and want the program to
succeed. With their eyes are fixed on
who might be helped, they become its cheerleaders. Besides, they don’t want to be unkind to the
president.
Notice that I have suggested
these attitudes apply mostly to young women.
They, after all, are the ones inclined to vote liberal. Older women, on the other hand, have doubts about
Democratic programs and therefore trend Republican. But why is this the case?
Here the answer lies in their
life circumstances. Older women are apt to be married and have
children. Hence they care about their
families. They don’t want them injured
and are alert to when they are. While
they too don’t appreciate controversy, they are prepared to defend their own.
Young women, however, are
apt to have no such attachments. Absent
these responsibilities, they can thus afford to be idealistic. With no one around them being hurt and intent
on doing good, they are vulnerable to siren songs seriously detached from
reality.
Consequently, young women,
when allowed to make political decisions, often steer the ship of state onto
rocky shoals. They don’t mean to hurt
anybody, but in their obliviousness to what works, mistake bald-faced lies for
compassion. Then they blame those who
warned them of the danger for being cruel.
The answer to this
dilemma? Everyone, including young
women, must be alerted to what works and what hurts. Phony calls to fantasy solutions must be
called out and identified for what they are.
Lies, no matter how attractive, cannot go unchallenged—even if this
entails contention.
Melvyn L. Fein, Ph.D.
Professor of Sociology
Kennesaw State University
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